I need help and guidance.

Hello ma name is Ruben and I am 18 and I am going through a rough time in what I consider my biggest "crush" ever! I am the pastor's son at church and I try to be an example to everyone at church but this situation has me a bit confused. in Sep. last year some new girls came to church for the first time and immediately I like a girl I saw which I later found out her name was Janette. So from Sep. to Jan. I have been getting to know her and praying about the situation because she likes another guy which is my friend and he likes her But he doesnt really dedicate time to her and her parents do not really like him for her ... I mean he is a really great guy but just not for her. So I now wonder what I have to do since I really like her and I think she likes me by what ive heard. She already knows I like her cause I told her, and I also told her that I would respect her relationship with the other guy.

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Permalink Reply by Alice on February 11, 2010 at 7:08pm

Hi Ruben
You really need to pray on this and ask God to give you the answer
When you do pray be very still and wait till he answers and you know it is him not the Devil
I also believe that her liking another guy is not good
She knows you like her and she still liking another guy
Leave it in Gods hands ok
God Loves you and has a girl pice out for you and it might not be her
Angel

Permalink Reply by rarest-diamond on February 12, 2010 at 10:29am

I was in a situation with a guy who liked me and also another girl. He always told me he liked me more. I stop talking to him because, if you really like someone, that's the only one you want. She likes another guy, you have already told her how you feel, I would let go and let God move. It's time for you to back off, she knows how you feel. Keep praying about it, if God wants it to be it will be. If not, he has a better plan for your life, keep in mind he can see the future and trust God because he knows what's best for you:) God Bless You & Yours!

Permalink Reply by KEYANA on February 15, 2010 at 7:34am

Ruben, two things: pray and BE CAREFUL! You could end up in a very hurtful situation by continuing to have feelings for and possibly pursuing someone who has feelings for someone else. It seems to me that this girl does not feel the same way that you do about her or else she would not be involved with your friend. It seems that she has made her decision. And if she and your friend are seeing each other and yet she has implied that she likes to you too, then I would still avoid it because this is confusion. She may be playing games and you will just get hurt in the end. Just give this situation to God because He always has your best interests in mind. God wills for us to have mutual love and respect in a relationship. God wills for you to have someone in your life who is devoted to you and no one else romantically. Trust me, I have been in this situation and it is quite painful. In the end, if you never end up with this girl then trust and know that she was not the one for you.

Permalink Reply by Ruben Adrian Murguia on February 15, 2010 at 11:48am