Premarital sex and the believer-Answer

Please, Sister(s) (and Brothers). I have learned a few things about premarital sex. First, allow me to share my words of encouragement with you. Be proud of the choice that you have made. Because, you have chosen the Godly path in regards to sexuality, to save that special gift of your physical love, along with your spiritual contract with God, to share only with the man, (or woman) you vow to serve together with, in the name of the Lord, in this earthly life, and all eternity thereafter. You see, there are not regrets from the path you have chosen in regards to having sex. And on the other hand, premarital sex has drawbacks, which can be everlasting and severe. Grief, is the major drawback to premarital sex. Here's how it works. For the most part, a person does not go out to have sex for the very first time, just to lose their virginity. Most, everyone who loses there virginity, are in a relationship. They feel that they are in love with the person that they, (at that time), wish to give their virginity to. And, quite often, their partner is in love with them also, but, only to the point of their knowledge into the level and degree of what their understanding of what love is. This goes for both people who proclaim love. I want everyone who reads these words, to know that, the grief that I am about to describe to you works in the soul of all who have chosen the option to have premarital sex, whether you believe in God in Christ, or not! The grief is more intense, for the believers. The grief I am about to explain, also rings towards the truth of not being unevenly yoked. Now, we have a brother and a sister who are in love. And, they decide to show their love for one another by sharing their bodies, having sex. (Just in that statement alone, you can feel the complications coming, if one is not a believer, right?) When you give yourself, "the two become one". Do you believe in the trinity, also? Because, now, what you have done, is mingled the three human parts of yourself, (one being the Holy Spirit) , with the three human parts (one being the Holy Spirit) of another, outside of the union of holy matrimony. Because, love, when you are a believer, is now the aorta flow into the lifeline to, and from God. There is no love without the acceptance of Christ into the spirit. That means, that whoever claims to love, and does not have Christ, does not really love at all. There is no exceptions! (There's that complication again, between the believer and the non-believer)! The six portions of the two selves are now one. That's great! If you are married. But, even if you are not married, and you get married, in a believer, consciousness of the Spirit, will call to you, over and over. (That's one form of grief). Now, if the relationship does not last, for whatever reason, and the two separate, remember, "two shall become one", you walk away with one half (1/2) of one (1). But you began with three (3)! Keep in mind, please, we are talking about emotions here, now. Not the spiritual ramifications, so, the grief you are to endure will be compounded. (I can't begin to quantify the spiritual grief anyone will suffer because it will be equated precicely to ones personal walk and growth with God). But, the numbers alone, would appall a seasoned gambler. One more time, three (3), to six (6), to one (1) which equals the six (6) in union together, to only one half of one (1/2 of 1)! I haven't even gotten to the actual grief portion of the lesson, not quite yet! What happened to the five and one half (5 1/2) parts of you? At the very least, what happened to the two and one half (2 1/2), out of the three (3), you were accountable for? If it all died, we would be fortunate. But they don't! The grief is like the grief of a very close loved one who has passed on. That's what the grief is like. But, the actuality, the reality is, as like a parent who has lost a child. The parent saw their child alive and well, and in the next second, the child was gone, disappeared! A day goes by, two, the whole neighborhood is on alert. The whole town, and a week goes by, and in some cases, the whole country is alerted. A month, a year passes and the child is still not found. Can you now begin to feel what it is, that you have done? The child is never found. The parent has lived out an entire lifetime wondering what has ever happened to their child. This is the most exact example of the type of grief that the believer is subject to when they engage in premarital sex. And, each and every time you engage in premarital sex with another person, another part of you gets lost. Prolonged behavior into this activity can be devastating to all who are involved. But, most of all, God does not approve of fornication. I pray that this give our readers some insight into the issue of premarital sex. Thank you.