How do you know when God has sent you your mate?

I have been back in the dating scene for about 2 yrs now. I have had a very rough time with it. I am a single mother with 4 children and God has shown me that he will send me a husband. It is so hard to really know for sure. I would love to hear about how others came to realize they had found or been blessed with their God given spouse. How do you know for sure? How do you keep from making a mistake? How should a woman be prepared? Does her financial status matter? Does a man have to have every single thing in order before he looks for his mate? I dont want to make another mistake, so I am believing and waiting, just need good advice and some words of wisdom. Thank you LIBAW members

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Permalink Reply by yolanda c. on August 30, 2011 at 3:04pm

I am like yourself. I have not been involved with anyone in awhile. I am finally getting my divorce soon and have discovered that there are many men out there that are not who they represent themselves to be. It has been a struggle by myself. The only thing that keeps me going are my kids and God. I pray everyday for their well being and myself. However, I also pray that I am not going to be alone for the rest of my life. I pray that God sends me someone who will respect me for me and my kids not as their own by just as mine. I think that God has taught me more within the past year than anything. He has shown me my life value. Every person deserves that. It is thru this post and yours though that make me remind myself everyday God will provide (Deus Providibit).

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Permalink Reply by Alain M. Paguntalan on November 23, 2011 at 4:54pm

Learn from your mistake and use it for your advancement in the future. Take an inventory of your life, look which part you had been attack and put a shield on it. Always ask God for help in every decision you make so that you will be careful to do what His will for you.