A woman preacher I listened to asked this very question. She said that if you only "date" Jesus, (have a relationship w/him when it's convenient,or when you need something from Him), or are you "married" to Jesus ( your life and everything you do in your life isn't just you any longer, but both you and Jesus)? She made an excellent point, and I've decided in my life I want to be married! Even if Jesus never gives me another gift,blessing,or help in any way for myself, I still want to be with him. With out Him my life is meaningless! Sometimes I think people take Jesus for granted always thinking that He will be there when they need him. Yes He will because He said he would, but why keep Jesus, like a book on a shelf, and use him when we feel like it? Isn't Jesus supposed to be shared? I want to take Jesus everywhere I go. He's part of the family once you get married to Him, so why not act like it!. Another man preacher, I know, said that a person should ask Jesus what He would do, in any situation. Why not! Jesus knows all, so why not ask your questions to someone who has ALL the answers...JESUS...Your Husband!? I may sound crazy, and this is ok, but I've done alot of thinking about what these two preachers said. I tried it. IT Works! I go to school for Medical Assisting and honestly it's hard, but with Jesus' help I'm passing. I was in school last Friday getting ready for a test when I found out I studied for the wrong chapter; well to make a long story short, I asked Jesus to help me and He did. I got a "B". For someone who didn't study AT ALL getting a "B" I believe Jesus came through! He gets All the credit here! Thank You Jesus! Well, you all have a great week, God Bless! Think about it...Is Jesus just a date,... or a husband to you?